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I think making the first move depends on the partner and situation.

In this example, she should be making the first move...

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I agree. You want it, you go for it. And we all know what I mean but 'it'

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yah, but the guy wants to take it slow, he likes her...that means he's looking for some type of permanet relationship, he actually wants to get to know HER and not some body part or act.
if she advances he might not think of her in the same light.
It's so easy to have sex, right guys!!!
its hard to have a real relationship and then maintaining that relationship for the duration.

Originally posted by Lexykon:

yah, but the guy wants to take it slow, he likes her...that means he's looking for some type of permanet relationship, he actually wants to get to know HER and not some body part or act.
if she advances he might not think of her in the same light.
It's so easy to have sex, right guys!!!
its hard to have a real relationship and then maintaining that relationship for the duration.

Originally posted by nykoelle:

and yes, i'm looking for sex, i have all the companionship i need in my bestfriend and a ton of other friends. but i need to get laid, in a nonpromiscuous, safe manner, with a nonsketchy, nice guy i really enjoy.

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then she should go to a bar a pick up some dude she'll never meet ever again and forget about this cool guy....hahahaha....its like so easy to get laid....if your a chicken....hahahaha

Well, she doesn't want a bar guy though. She pretty much wants a casual boyfriend that'll take her out and have sex with her and not be too demanding of her attention.

This requires a lot of up front and honestly on her part which means communication.

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your right!!
she should just relax and see where it goes.
communication is vital.

- do not want bar guy. bar guys typically bring syphillis to the table.

- i'm going to see what he's doing sunday, and see where it goes from there, i'm not sure where i stand as far as wanting a relationship, but im getting to be ok with him not wanting to move fast. if something happens, well, it'll be fun.

BUT QUESTION
someone else asked me out for tuesday.

what are the standards on this... typically i only date one person at a time.. but.

?

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Originally posted by nykoelle:

- do not want bar guy. bar guys typically bring syphillis to the table.

- i'm going to see what he's doing sunday, and see where it goes from there, i'm not sure where i stand as far as wanting a relationship, but im getting to be ok with him not wanting to move fast. if something happens, well, it'll be fun.

BUT QUESTION
someone else asked me out for tuesday.

what are the standards on this... typically i only date one person at a time.. but.

?

Go for it.

I don't see why not. You obviously aren't ready for another relationship. You and the current guy should just be "dating" and having fun. Just make sure he knows whats up. COMMUNICATION!

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