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the second they are alone that worm is gonna try and touch her.

What if *she* wants to be touched?
At 15 some girls have lost their virginity already (either to older guys, or to guys their own age).

Last edited by malephika, May 1st, 2006 10:34 PM (Edited 1 times)

I really don't care when other 15 yr old girls lost their virginity. A lot of her friends are sexually active and have had many sexual partners. But I know my sister. She was scared to hold hands with her last boyfriend. I know she is easily influenced as well - she is insecure and doesn't like to displease people - she has a hard time saying no. And as her sister, knowing who she is - I won't let him put her in the position to feel intimidated into allowing him put his filthy hands on her. Like I said before - a lot of guys don't think of the mind frame of that younger girl.

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she has a hard time saying no.

Hmm, ok. I thought this was more about a over-protecting thing.
Although chances are that she'll probably learn to defend herself from some things the hard way, one just can't protect our loved ones all the time (which I learned the hard way as well).

Oh trust me, I know that I can't protect her all the time -- I am way over-protective of her.

When I CAN protect her - I will and I do. The fact that I know my sister is one reason I am so protective of her. Not because I think she can't make the right decision on her own, but because I don't think she should have to be put in a position where she even has to learn right or wrong in a way that will hurt her.

I don't want her to be stuck in a situation I know she doesn't have the maturity to handle - and I won't let some dickhead put her in that position just cuz he wants a piece of *** and doesn't have the integrity to find a woman his own age who does know right or wrong and can make that decision knowing the consiquences of either saying yes or no.

Chances are she'll learn to defend herself - I know she will learn how to defend herself. Just not now. She's 15 - she's still a child, she's still growing, she knows about the birds and the bees, she knows about politics and current affairs, she's a smart girl for 15 - but that doesnt mean that some 20 yr old prick has the right to put her in a position to feel pressured and confused and/or hurt.

And if I can stop that from happening - I will. And I will do my damnedest to make sure it doesn't happen. By the way - Im also protective of most of her friends her age too. It's not just my sister that I think should have the liberty to learn about scumbag boys when they have the maturity to deal with those situations - I think all girls should.

Im not ignorant to the fact that boys are gonna try things and girls will too - nor am I ignorant of the fact that I can't stop all bad things from happening - Im not SuperWoman - but I do try and help her and her friends learn in the best way possible - and to me - that isn't in the backseat of some jerks car.

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Hm. It's great that you care so much for your sister and all, but 15 isn't that young. I'm not saying she should go off and have sex with this guy, but I don't think you should try and protect her so much. She's obviously growing up, and she's going to have to experience things for herself. You can't just hold her from everything 'til YOU decide she's ready. Yes, she might get hurt many times in the process, but that's what life is about. She can't go on forever thinking someone's going to be there protecting her. Plus, teenagers need to experience things themselves, before it's too late, and they're spending all day in an office.

At least, that's how I feel about it.

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lol Re-read wot I said... I know she will learn and she will get hurt on her own - but I aint gonna LET her get hurt if I KNOW she is gonna get hurt. Thats jus silly.

I support her as much as I can in every decision she makes - and when she asks me advice I tell her the truth. I'm not so protective of her that I wouldn't let her do anything or any of that BS - Im just not gonna let some guy try to take advantage of my sister, no matter his age, especially a guy who WOULD go to jail if he DID touch her.

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i think that as long as their hot bang away

Originally posted by death2all:

i think that as long as their hot bang away

For that comment alone - I hope you get with a really smart 13 yr old girl & she tells her dad what you did to her. Then some fatguy named Bubba can teach you some respect.

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Originally posted by XxHoNeYxX:

Originally posted by death2all:

i think that as long as their hot bang away

For that comment alone - I hope you get with a really smart 13 yr old girl & she tells her dad what you did to her. Then some fatguy named Bubba can teach you some respect.

The kid was in my computer class when he posted it. He was being a dumbass. :\

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yeah being a brother myself I strongly agree with XxHoNeYxX. I wouldn't let her have a boy friend at highschool. Not that I think teenages shouldn't have relationships but I just dont want her to get hurt because I know some guys are just fucked up in the head. I would say to her she should wait longer. death2all I think u seriously need to get yourself checked out. U're acting so imature.