Neverside

haha... everyones life sucks... a buddy and myself were driving home from downtown vancouver and we saw all these lights so we figured we'd stop and check it out turns out they were shooting fantastic four, although we saw nothing amazing... haha i dont know why i posted that... has nothing to do with sucking - just ubber coolness haha

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Originally posted by Decker
I agree, but we're really close to sex, and I don't know if Kelly is a good fallback.

Really close? As a friend, man, if that's the only reason to stick around, don't bother. Not really worth being miserable in the long run for five-to-fifteen minutes of *possible, almost there* fun. It's easier to get your jollies with a one-night stand and be happier without her.

Not trying to be a jerk, just being honest. I'm thinking that some girls here might actually agree with me. Trust me, five to ten years from now you'll look back and wonder why the hell you'd make yourself miserable for weeks just to get some from someone who may or may not put out. If sex is goal, it's just not worth that much effort. Not if you don't really care about her. Do both of you a favor and move on.

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Bmovies are BACK!

::classic: Night clubs were made for this pourpose.

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Back in the states.

Can't say that I had a bad week, but hopefully the weeks to come look up for those of you that have had bad weeks

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Originally posted by actionPlant
Really close? As a friend, man, if that's the only reason to stick around, don't bother. Not really worth being miserable in the long run for five-to-fifteen minutes of *possible, almost there* fun. It's easier to get your jollies with a one-night stand and be happier without her.

Not trying to be a jerk, just being honest. I'm thinking that some girls here might actually agree with me. Trust me, five to ten years from now you'll look back and wonder why the hell you'd make yourself miserable for weeks just to get some from someone who may or may not put out. If sex is goal, it's just not worth that much effort. Not if you don't really care about her. Do both of you a favor and move on.

Couldn't agree more - it's not worth sticking around in a relationship where you are unhappy, becoming depressed etc. Since it sounds like the only reason you are sticking around is because there is a possibility of sex, that's pretty low in my opinion (ever heard of the term "being used"?)

There's a thing called guilt as well....

And if she finds out that the only reasons you stayed with her was to get a shag (and then you dump her) - she'll feel pretty crap, humiliated and used.

And besides, there's no guarantee she *will* sleep with you anyway.

If I was her and found out that you only stayed with me for a shag, there's be hell to pay :grumpy
Anyhows - if you are that unhappy and don't see the relationship going anywhere else except for that possibility of sex, then as ActionPlant said, move on with your life and find a girl that you will be happy with.

That's just my view on the whole thing, but my partner of 2 1/2 years and I are deciding where our relationship is headed, so that's why I'm having a crap week :confused:

Do what you feel is right, but don't let your judgement be clouded by your loins

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i sprained my ankle hardcore.

other than that no complaints. i try to be positive, things could be worse.

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